RED ROSES, FEELINGS:THE MANY FACES OF VALENTINE

BY BRENDA MUKAMI

Valentine’s Day  is more than a date in calendar ,it is a reminder that  love deserve to be expressed not assumed.

According to legend  it's traced back to the 3rd century, to Saint Valentine, a Roman priest who defied Emperor Claudius II by secretly marrying couples when marriage was banned to make stronger soldiers. He was imprisoned, formed a bond with  Jailer’s blind daughter Julia, and before his execution on February 14, he sent her a note signed, “From your Valentine.”

Poets like Geoffrey Chaucer linked Valentine to love, and in the Victorian era, exchanging flowers, chocolates, and cards became popular as a public way to show affection. Red roses took center stage because red speaks without words. It stands for love, passion, and desire, and   psychological studies show the color red can raise attention, heart rate, and feelings of attraction.

Valentine can feel loud and quiet at the same time. It can feel loud with bright flowers, sweet messages, and public celebrations of love. At the same time, it can feel quiet in the soft whispers, private prayers, and unspoken emotions shared between two hearts. For some, it is laughter and surprises; for others, it is reflection and silent longing. In both the noise and the stillness, love finds its own beautiful way to be felt.

When you are loved on this  day, the world feels softer. You feel seen, valued, and secure, even in the smallest gestures. The  Day feels like a gentle reminder that you truly matter to someone. It fills your heart with joy, comfort, and a quiet confidence that you are valued. Even the smallest act, a message, a smile, a thoughtful gift can make the day feel unforgettable.

 Others give in to pressure of this day and start questioning there Worth especially When no one remembers them . which may lead them to unhealthy relationship based on fear of being alone rather than genuine love.

Still, others choose  this day to celebrate themselves. They buy  flowers, dress well, go out alone, and celebrate self-love because love, too, begins with you. Others celebrate their parents as their valentine . Because love is not only romantic  but also about appreciation and gratitude. Parents are often the first people who show us unconditional love, care, and sacrifice. Valentine’s Day becomes a special chance to thank them for their support and the many things they do quietly every day.

In  deeper sense, 14th February it's not just about romantic love but also friendship, family and self love. Choosing someone with intention, showing kindness and appreciation, celebrating emotional connection and reminding people they are valued.